

Here is an item I posted some years back. It is a good challenge to think about how we can be thankful for our own thorns in life.
Thorns
Sandra felt as low as the heels of her Birkenstocks as she pushed against a November gust and the florist shop door. Her life had been easy, like a spring breeze. Then in the fourth month of her second pregnancy, a minor automobile accident stole her ease. During this Thanksgiving week she would have delivered a son. She grieved over her loss.
As if that weren't enough her husband's company threatened a transfer. Then her sister, whose holiday visit she coveted, called saying she could not come. What's worse, Sandra's friend infuriated her by suggesting her grief was a God-given path to maturity that would allow her to empathize with others who suffer? "Had she lost a child? No - she has no idea what I'm feeling,"







This recipe came to us from my aunt. It is very simple since you mix the cake up right in the cake pan! No bowls, no other messes. It is not the cheapest or most low-fat cake you will find, but if you need a cake in a hurry this one will certainly go together quickly.

Our family is no longer particularly worried about the oil issue as it turns out oil is not nearly as “unhealthy” for us as the so-called experts claimed at one time. I do recommend that you use a healthy oil such as grape seed or something similar. Some olive oils might have an odd flavor in a sweet dish like this, but it could be used as well. I have not tried coconut oil as yet, but I hope to do so. I am not sure if melted butter would work or not, but I will probably try that as well at some point just to see. (That would make an extra dirty dish, though.)

If you want the edges of the pan to look better than this, you will want to wipe them off before you bake the cake. :-) I used a chocolate butter frosting to frost this cake.

I made this cake in a disposable pan to take to an event where we were asked to help provide cake. As you can see, I still use some sprinkles occasionally just for fun. We get very few food colorings in our food any more, so I figure it’s OK for a once-in-awhile treat. :-)
Chocolate Dump Cake
Dump into a 9x13 cake pan:
2 C. flour
1 1/2 C. sugar
1 tsp. vanilla
1/2 C. cocoa powder
1 egg
1 tsp. salt
1 C. buttermilk
1 C. oil
2 tsp. baking soda
Mix fairly well.
Add 1 C. boiling water.
Mix thoroughly.
Bake 30-35 minutes at 350F.
Note: The last time I made this I reduced the oil to about 3/4 C. and it still turned out fine. I think I also reduced the sugar to 1 C. I also used peppermint flavoring instead of vanilla, but I was not impressed with how that worked in this recipe, so be forewarned. Almond would probably be fine. This cake also keeps well in the freezer.

A Thanksgiving
For all Thy blessings given there are many to thank Thee, Lord,
But for the gifts withholden I fain would add my word.
For good things I desired that barred me from the best,
The peace at the price of honour, the sloth of a shameful rest;
The poisonous sweets I longed for to my hungering heart denied,
The staff that broke and failed me when I walked in the way of pride;
The tinsel joys withheld that so content might still be mine,
The help refused that might have made me loose my hand from Thine;
The light withdrawn that I might not see the dangers of my way;
For what Thou hast not given, I thank Thee, Lord today.
Annie Johnson Flint
Psalm 84:11 For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly. 12 O LORD of hosts, blessed is the man that trusteth in thee.
A Thanksgiving for Hard Things
Thank You, my Father that Your wisest choosing,
To my own wayward heart is ever proving,
That some glad joy I longed my life to garnish,
Would but have left me marred with rust and tarnish.
Thank You, Lord, for that most kind depriving,
Which mercifully withstood my soul's mad driving,
Has kept me from some greater, horribler loss,
While teaching me the glory of Thy cross.
Thank You that the smaller scars I have sustained,
Have kept me, Lord, from what I might have gained,
Of deeper wounds that span the years of life,
And bear the loathsome fruit of constant strife.
Thank You for Your thoughtful little tokens,
Reminding that I'm loved, though sorely broken;
And so I find these smaller blessings meet,
To bring me here in worship at Thy feet.
Thank You, Lord, that that which seemeth good to Thee,
Hath overruled that which seemed so good to me,
And so withheld some earthly satisfaction,
That I might serve Thee here without distraction.
O Thank You, God, that confidence yet growing,
Can rest in Thy great wisdom, safely knowing,
Though troubles come which I can never tell,
Yet my Redeemer doeth all things well.
By Mary Stephens
Originally written in Nov. 2004
1Thessalonians 5:18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
Mark 7:37 …He hath done all things well…
Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.